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Is there any guide book or reference on how to raise a disable kid?

My cute little girl born without left palm. Now she almost 2 years old and starting to wondering why she is difference. How do I educate her with this and accept it while she growing up. Any books or people can I seek help for?
Many daily things was design to be operated using both hands, how do I teach hear to overcome this type of operation problem?

lots of books on special. i read thousands. then i figured out no two are alike so the best thing to do is to go by your gut feeling. i found a great OT that worked with my son for years and taught me and him lots of things. if you could find some parents whose kids have the same disability you will get the best advice from them. they have already been where you are at. check support groups in your area, ask her doctor if he knows any other parents, look for some on the web. my son is severely autistic and parents were my best teachers. and also my son. hope it works out good for you and your little girl.